Our programming created in us a reflection of systematic criticism and rejection of new ideas automatically. This reflection must be rooted destructive. The best way to do this is to replace it with reprogramming based on three behaviors to be integrated until they become automatic and constitute precisely the creaflex.
Prime behavior: diverge before converging
Faced with a problem, the solution is perhaps the first idea that good. To be sure, it must be able to compare to 'other or, rather, to many others. "For any problem there are at least two solutions.
According behavior: listen before judging
The conditioning of our education leads us to consider the ideas that there are proposals before it is even truly understood, or simply listen.
The technique Advocate angel , imagined by Sidney Shore, it is within our reach. It consists of four stages, to be carried out quietly and rigorously.
1. hear each other completely . This means of course, to remain silent, to avoid the main interruption impropriety, but also to visibly demonstrate your interest in our party for his views, to show our facial expressions and our body posture that we receive "5 5 ". This consensus does not mean that we agree with what is said, but simply that we record uncensored the entire message. And this is certainly the least we can do.
2. Riformulare precisamente . Restituire all’altro il suo messaggio con le nostre parole, cosa che gli permetterà di verificare se è stato compreso ed eventualmente di completare , correggere, sfumare , la nostra nuova formulazione .
3. Complimenti con sincerità . Qui si mette all’opera la creatività dei partecipanti. In un ‘idea che li soddisfa a metà, o per nulla , devono riuscire a identificare almeno un punto positivo. La formula magica è , alla letter: "What I like about your idea is ..."
4. Asking open . For this task participants have at their disposal the checklist Cccdpq: who, what, how, where, why, when? For example: What is the benefit of the idea that you propose?; Who may object? ..
Third behavior: not all evil comes to harm
This is technique Sidney Shore : "What's Good About It ?" , inviting the participants to the following considerations:
· you happen to an event, positive or negative. Start by expressing your emotions;
· make a list of all the negative consequences arising or that may arise. Count out;
· now, use your creativity to list at least as many potentially positive. This will be difficult, perhaps the first time but you will see that there will always be easier;
· compare the two lists and found some positive consequences as allow you to cancel or compensate 'effect of negative ones.
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